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Do What You Love

Research consistently points to increased enthusiasm and higher performance when people are involved in something they love doing. And so it goes with adults who have ADD. Ask them to perform a task that feels monotonous, tedious, confining or forced and they will...

Just Be You!

Acceptance is as critical as self-awareness. Avoid painful comparisons to folks who aren’t wired the way you are. Such comparisons will inevitably, lead to self doubt and inhibit creative energy and awe inspiring adventure. Understand that you will pursue life from a...

When Did I Officially Become Invisible?

I’m not sure of the exact day that my invisibility set in, but I am sure it wasn’t yesterday. Was it when the masses became buried in their gadgets? You know mobile phones, mobile apps, tablets etc.? Was it the YouTube, Tic Toc craze that spawned the drive for mass...

Smoothing Over LIfe’s Bumpy Roads

No Guilt, No Shame, No Regrets! That’s a tough one! Letting go of upsetting life events is often a tough cookie to swallow. Acceptance is earnestly acquiescing to what is happening or has happened without judging, negotiating, bargaining, blaming, denying, redefining,...

Racing Through Life-Tumbling All The Way

By Jim Sobosan OOPS! There I go again, tumbling down those basement steps. As I lay at the bottom of the stairs looking towards the top where I had begun in an upright position, I wondered, why do I unintentionally keep doing things that hurt so much? After some...

Act First Think Later? Trouble Ahead

By Jim Sobosan Fire-Ready-Aim is a term often used to describe behavior that is impulsive and frequently renders unwanted outcomes. Reacting hastily without considering potential consequences, difficulty stopping or altering a destructive action once it has been put...

Live Intentionally-It Works Way Better

How Long Will You Wait? Your successes will be defined by the actions you take, not by the actions of others or the fates of the universe. I believe successful entrepreneurs and business professionals are living, breathing examples of this credo. I’ll bet Walt Disney...

But What About Me?

Does it ever stop? The Boss’ last minute emergency that has to be tended to before we can escape into the darkness of night. Never ending demands on our all too limited time. Don’t forget relationships that need our attention and nurturing, family time, family crisis....